(Daily Mail Online, 2015)
This dress recently caused a divide between those who see it
as white and gold (myself included) or those seeing it as black and blue. With
arguments breaking out all over Twitter because millions of viewers simply
could not agree on the real colour of the dress! So my question; how do we
resolve this?
Many people took to Twitter (even celebrities got in
on it!) to portray the competing/forcing way of conflict resolution, which means
being extremely assertive and un co-operative and trying to get their way, by
tweeting things such as:
Others chose the more open approach of collaborating- where
the problem gets solved together, people become more co-operative:
Resolving conflict can be a tricky thing, however this argument
just cannot seem to be negotiated- it is up to your eyes which colour you see, it’s
all based around science and the light hitting your retina, therefore there is
no right or wrong answer. However, no one is ever going to agree unless you are
on the same team of colours. What about
you? Are you #TeamGoldandWhite or #TeamBlackandBlue?
The only consensus that was made was that Twitter
brought everyone together in a joint debate over a simple dress.
Do you have any advice on resolving conflicts of any kind? Are you more Truculent Taylor or Calm (or should I say Kalm) Kimmy?
Liv x